Ray Rice, Power, and Domestic Violence in the NFL
Rape, now more commonly called sexual assault , is the end and the beginning of many things. It can be the end of innocence and trust, for as long as it takes to recapture that, and the beginning of guilt, shame, fear, sexual problems, infertility, mental and physical illnesses, isolation, and more. Tearing it apart, the perpetrator overpowers a victim, a person who protests, and having more power over this person, commits a crime of passion, of sorts, Those cries of " No , I don't want you to . . ." (do whatever it is that is objectionable at the time) are overruled by brute force. We tend to think of a sexual assault perpetrator as larger-than-life, stronger than your average Joe, but more often than not, he's not. Sometimes he's the person you would never suspect, might even respect (think of teachers). When the suspect is a professional football player he is stronger, indomitable. Six years ago sexual violence was outed in the NFL. Ben Roethlisberger, accus